This week we meet Laura, who has three kids and three jobs! There seems to be a recurring theme with the levels of multi-tasking each working mum I interview manages to undertake. I can see why Laura’s blog is called Musings of a tired mummy!
Current profession: exam invigilator at one school, clerk to governors at two other schools, and blogger!
Town or county you live in: Camberley
How did you get into your school-based jobs?
I did both roles as part of a previous job from before I had children. I wanted something part time that I could fit around my family. It took a long time of applying and failing before I got the first job and then within a year I’d got the other two as well. Eight months ago I started blogging to allow myself to be a bit creative and let the world know that parenting is crazy.
Briefly describe a typical day at work…
Exams are spread through the year, obviously most in May and June. We arrive and set up the exam room with the papers etc, then supervise the candidates while they do their best (hopefully)! Clerking involves me taking minutes at meetings and writing them up. I’m also responsible for filing and other admin. I spend a lot of time at my computer, checking emails and organising. Blogging happens everywhere! I lay in bed, on the school run, cooking, out and about, watching tv; I’m always thinking of topics and have to jot them down or write a note on my phone to remember them.
What is the best part of your jobs?
The variety in all of them. The exams are always varied; I like the music and languages exams best, as they are more interesting but more can go wrong if the CD player breaks down! Every meeting is different and every governor brings something special to the schools I work at – they are deeply committed to providing the best for the children. Blogging is something that is just about me and my family; a chance for me to express myself, as my kids generally don’t listen.
And the worst?
Seeing kids in exams not even trying and waiting for other people to get back to me before the school run so I can sign off for the day and concentrate on my family. Oh and finding time to blog!
How many children do you have?
How old were your children when you went back to work?
Matthew was four and Anya was two when I got the exam invigilator job. I worked the very next day after having Zach (!) for clerking and invigilated an exam within a month.
How did you find going back to work after having a baby?
I wanted to get a job to set a good example to my children and be able to afford treats. It is hard leaving them, but most of the time I can work around the older two’s school hours.
Did you go back to the same job? Or consider a career change?
I was training to be an educational psychologist while working as a teaching assistant in a primary school. I simply couldn’t afford to continue, as the childcare costs were higher than my wages.
Who provides childcare for you?
My mum during the day and my partner in the evenings.
Was it easy to negotiate flexible working/returning to work?
I set my hours around the kids with the exception of Zach who is more than happy to go to my mum for a couple of hours (never longer than three).
Would you say your attitude to work has changed since having a baby?
Definitely. I used to begrudge working parents having time off and making my day harder. Now I am much more sympathetic and realise how busy parents are!
What advice would you give to mums on maternity leave?
Don’t feel guilty: whatever you decide is best for your family.
Laura’s blog is called Musings of a tired mummy…zzz…